Last October my youngest daughter, Debby, was blind-sided by her adored husband saying he no longer wanted to be married. He loved her like a friend and saw no reason they could not be roommates. She, sobbing her heart out, saw no reason for him to stay and asked (told) him to leave immediately.
After he eventually agreed to try to make things work, they went for counseling together and individually. He was back in the house and things were rocky, but leveling out. A few weeks ago there was a ” breakthrough” as the counselor put it. Everyone agreed. A few days later Deb’s husband stated, “I want a divorce!”
Another tragedy this year. When one of our family hurts, we all hurt. Please, no more. I need there to be no more. I need.